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color:black'>From:<span style='mso-tab-count:1'>                              </span></span></b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";mso-bidi-font-family:Calibri; color:black'>Louise Fox [louise@etiquetteladies.com]<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:120.0pt;text-indent:-120.0pt;tab-stops: 120.0pt;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none'><b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";mso-bidi-font-family:Calibri; color:black'>Sent:<span style='mso-tab-count:1'>                               </span></span></b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";mso-bidi-font-family:Calibri; color:black'>December-07-08 8:33 PM<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class=MsoNormal style='margin-left:120.0pt;text-indent:-120.0pt;tab-stops: 120.0pt;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none'><b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";mso-bidi-font-family:Calibri; color:black'>To:<span style='mso-tab-count:1'>                                   </span></span></b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";mso-bidi-font-family:Calibri; color:black'>djwindsor@mts.net<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class=MsoNormal><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p> <div style='border:solid #5E3A34 3.0pt;padding:0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm' id=wrapper> <p class=MsoNormal><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img width=640 height=115 id=ielptopper src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/elp_topper2.jpg" alt="The Etiquette Leader Post" name=ielptopper><o:p></o:p></span></p> <div style='margin-left:7.5pt'> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img width=210 height=230 id=imgLouise src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/inset_left_louise.jpg" alt="Louise Fox" name=imgLouise><o:p></o:p></span></p> <h1 style='background:white'><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Welcome to the Holiday edition of <br> <strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The Etiquette Leader Post</span></strong><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>With the financial situation such as it is, this year we need to relax and re-think what is really important in our lives. It s our relationships with family, friends and colleagues that count in spite of how frustrating they may be at times. My father, who dearly loved his family and Christmas, passed away last January after we had spent the holidays together. As I fought the snow and traffic on the way to the airport last December, little did I know that it would be our last Christmas together as a family.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Whatever you celebrate, try to have fun, be nice to each other and make it memorable. This month s <strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Etiquette Leader Post</span></strong> includes timely topics like <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Take that Turkey and Stuff It: Seasonal Thoughts on Getting Along, Change Someone s Life: the Gift of Charity, Tips for Children on Writing Thank-You Notes, Party Tips for Hosts, Re-gifting</span></em> and, of course, <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Ruder than Rude</span></em>. If you can tune in, I will be appearing again on <em><span style='font-family: "Georgia","serif"'>The Steven and Chris Show</span></em> on CBC on December 19. Also, I will be appearing on <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>CBC News Today</span></em> on December 12 at 10:40 and on <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>CBC Metro Morning</span></em> later on during the holiday season discussing  Holiday Manners . I have also provided links to various editorials where I have given my two cents worth in the media section of the newsletter.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><img width=600 height=30 id="_x0000_i1027" src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/comingsoon_newsite.jpg" alt="Coming Soon: The NEW Etiquette Ladies Website"><o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <div style='border-top:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;border-left:none;border-bottom: dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;border-right:none;mso-border-top-alt:dotted #5E3A34 .75pt; mso-border-bottom-alt:dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm; margin-left:7.5pt'><!-- Calendar Menu --> <table class=MsoNormalTable border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0 width=500 style='width:375.0pt;mso-cellspacing:0cm;mso-yfti-tbllook:1184;mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm' id=tcalendar> <tr style='mso-yfti-irow:0;mso-yfti-firstrow:yes;mso-yfti-lastrow:yes'> <td width=150 style='width:112.5pt;padding:0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm'> <p class=MsoNormal><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img width=106 height=150 id=imgCalendar src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/calendar_dec25.jpg" alt=calendar name=imgCalendar><o:p></o:p></span></p> </td> <td width=350 valign=top style='width:262.5pt;padding:0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm'> <h1><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>This Month<o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p><a href="#article01" target="_self">Take That Turkey and Stuff It: Seasonal Thoughts on Getting Along </a><br> <a href="#article02" target="_self">Change Someone s Life: The Gift of Charity</a><br> <a href="#article03" target="_self">Tips for Writing Thank-You Cards</a><br> <a href="#article04" target="_self">Holiday Quiz</a><br> <a href="#article06" target="_self">Party Etiquette for Hosts</a><br> <a href="#article07" target="_self">Re-gifting: Should I?</a><br> <a href="#article09" target="_self">Ruder than rude: Wishing Merry Christmas</a><br> <a href="#article10" target="_self">Louise in the Media</a><br> <a href="#article11" target="_self">Upcoming Events</a> </p> </td> </tr> </table> <!-- Article 01 --></div> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:#F0EDE6'><a name=article01 id=article01><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Take That Turkey and Stuff It: Seasonal Thoughts on Getting Along </span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=174 height=260 id=imgFamilyDinner src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ipn401_familydinner.jpg" alt="Family dinner" name=imgFamilyDinner><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The purpose of the holiday festivities is to spend time with those we care about and create wonderful memories that last a lifetime. It is the time to celebrate and put aside our differences, petty or otherwise. Unique differences are what make families interesting. But sometimes at family gatherings when the hostess has stressed herself out by trying to make every little thing perfect, your two brothers-in-law aren t speaking, your sister s kids are driving you nuts and spinster Aunt Edith, after enjoying her third cocktail, is giving advice on how to raise children, you may wish you had just stayed at home. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Here are a few tips to make it through the holidays. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Don t try to solve other people s problems. A statement or opinion does not necessarily require a response nor is it a request for advice. Unless someone specifically asks for advice, don t give it. The holiday dinner table isn t the time to deal with family problems. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>You can t control other people s actions, only your own. If a member of your family has a reputation for being annoying or obnoxious, don t jump in the swamp with the alligators. Perpetuating rudeness or bad behavior by returning it in kind solves nothing and doesn t set a good example for your children. Put a smile on your face and change the subject. Sometimes it is a good idea for us to take a look in the mirror and make sure our own behavior is above reproach. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Controversial subjects are best avoided at holiday time if they are going to lead to arguments. Try to keep things light and celebratory. Remember your sense of humor is your best asset when the going gets tough. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Coach your children beforehand as to the behavior you expect from them and what you want them to do, including dinner, clean up or baby sitting. Coach them on their  visiting and table manners . <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Remember: forgiveness is a virtue. Control your cocktails. Many, if not most problems, are the result of too many festive libations. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Enjoy the holidays and make some memories good ones.<o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 02 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:white'><a name=article02 id=article02><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Change Someone s Life: The Gift of Charity</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=217 height=321 id=imgMealsOnWheels src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ipn401_mealsonwheels.jpg" alt="Meals On Wheels" name=imgMealsOnWheels><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Do the people on your gift list have everything? Do their kids have too much stuff? Should you just head for the mall and buy another video game or should you make a charitable donation on their behalf? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>In this age of over abundance, encouraging empathy and charity is admirable. However, when it comes to young people, perhaps it isn t best accomplished by just making a donation on their behalf. It becomes more meaningful if they have been involved in the process, understand how they can help others and get that  feel-good feeling . Charities such as World Vision have a wonderful gift catalogue and web site where you can choose gifts that make a real difference in the life of a child or family in an impoverished situation. They also offer, as an alternative, a gift card, which is sent to the  giver so they can choose from the catalogue or web site themselves. It is exciting to pick a gift: two hens and a rooster for $55, warm clothing for 25 children for $35 or furnish a class room with school supplies for a mere $50. There are gifts for as little as $30 and more extravagant gifts where the whole community benefits. There are even gifts for children here in Canada who need our help. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>In your own home, make it a family project. Have your child save up to purchase something from the catalogue and then match their contribution with a real gift. The more they save up to give the more they receive in return. It s a win-win situation and there is still something under the tree to open on Christmas Day. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Visit the <a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/r" target="_blank">World Vision Gift Catalogue online.</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Or you can write to <a href="mailto:jessica_parker@worldvision.ca">Jessica Parker</a> or <a href="mailto:karen_homer@worldvision.ca">Karen Homer.</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 03 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:#F0EDE6'><a name=article03 id=article03></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Tips for Writing Thank-You Cards<o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=320 height=231 id=imgChildWithMarkers src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ipn401_childwithmarkers.jpg" alt="Child with markers" name=imgChildWithMarkers><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Young children should learn the importance of sending a thank-you card for gifts they receive. Make it a family project. Stop by the dollar store and buy some stickers, colored markers, glue, sparkles, ribbons, etcetera. Print off some thank-you cards using a highly legible font on the computer. Let the kids have some fun designing and coloring their own cards, ready to write that thank-you message on Christmas day. Remind them to thank the gift giver for their thoughtfulness in choosing the gift, not just for the gift itself. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Instances where writing a thank-you note are highly appropriate include: <o:p></o:p></span></p> <ul type=disc> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>receiving a gift from someone<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>having stayed overnight in someone s home<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>receiving a special favor or kindness from someone<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>having been a dinner or party guest<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>having someone who has hosted a special party for you<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>wanting to show appreciation to someone<o:p></o:p></span></li> </ul> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>The thank-you note should be hand written rather than typed up in an e-mail. Write promptly and be sure to sound sincere and enthusiastic. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Don t start your note with,  Thank you for&  . Say something about the thoughtfulness of the giver, name the gift, say something nice about it, what you will do with the gift, add a nice closing and sign your name. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Here are a couple of examples of a well-written thank-you note. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Dear Sarah, please tell your Mom she makes the best pizza ever. I had a terrific time last night and I love how you fixed your room. Thank you so much for inviting me for a sleep over. Have a nice Christmas. Best & </span></em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Dear Grandma, I will certainly hit a home run with the new baseball bat you gave me for Christmas! It was just what I needed and I can hardly wait to use it. Thank you for such a great gift. Love ...</span></em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 04 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:white'><a name=article04 id=article04></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Holiday Quiz<o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Answer these questions <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>true</span></em> or <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>false</span></em>. <a href="#article08">Answers are further below.</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <ol start=1 type=1> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>In your table place setting, your bread or salad is on your right and your drink is on your left.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>At a dinner at someone s home, it is acceptable to ask for second helpings.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>If your spouse is invited to the company party, even though he is reluctant to attend, it is imperative he accompany you.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>A gift for your boss should be significant, tasteful and delivered to his/her home.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>If you are not comfortable with the seating arrangements at a party, you may switch place cards as long as it is done unobtrusively.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>The parents of your daughter s school friend have invited you to their house party. In this case it is quite acceptable to bring your daughter with you to the party.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>The company celebration party is the one time you can call your boss by his first name and let your hair down.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>If you are invited to be a weekend house guest you should not ask what events are planned; this is considered forward and boorish.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>The company party is a good opportunity to wear your low cut backless evening gown.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>When attending a house party, a good host gift is a bottle of wine that you can share with the rest of the guests.<o:p></o:p></span></li> </ol> </div> <!-- Article 05 --><!-- Article 06 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:#F0EDE6'><a name=article06 id=article06><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Party Etiquette for Hosts</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=300 height=200 id=imgCenterpiece src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ipn401_centerpiece.jpg" alt=Centerpiece name=imgCenterpiece><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Whether you prefer black-tie parties and champagne or family room get-togethers with pizza and beverages, being the host can sometimes be overwhelming if you don t remember the basics. As the host, don t burden yourself too much with worry about overly elaborate food preparation and having every little thing perfect. If the host is stressed out and in a frenzy, guests will sense it and no one will have a good time. If the host is having a good time, usually the guests will as well. So before guests are due to arrive, take at least five minutes for yourself and relax. Opening your door looking fresh and happy is the best way to be sure your guests feel welcome. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Here are a few suggestions for the party host: <o:p></o:p></span></p> <ol start=1 type=1> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Invitations.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Please provide advance notice, clear directions, parking instructions and any other details your guests should know. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Location.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Guests want to enjoy your home and it should be easy for them to find a place to sit and relax. When children are invited, have a contained activity or playroom. If you are expecting more than three or four children, hire a baby sitter to keep them entertained and provide kid-friendly food. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Seating arrangements.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> When a sit-down dinner is possible and it is necessary to separate feuding guests, use place cards. Don t sit two bores or two talkers together. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Creature comforts. </span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Have a designated coat area, extra socks, slippers and welcome mats for wet boots. You may also need to prepare for guests who will insist on smoking outdoors. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Supplies.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Please stock the bathrooms with clean hand towels, tissues, an air freshener, toilet paper, soap and hand cream. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Set the food.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> When deciding the menu and beverages, have a good quantity with an ample selection to choose from. Make sure you have the fridge and oven space to accommodate your menu and do as much preparation beforehand as you can. You ll also need plates, cutlery, varying size napkins, trays and serving pieces. <o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Host.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Circulate and introduce people, make conversation, take drink orders, replenish food items, hang coats and be aware. Always ensure your guests do not drink and drive. <o:p></o:p></span></li> </ol> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'> If your heart is in the right place your event will always be a success, says Letitia Baldridge, the U.S. Manners Maven.<o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 07 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:white'><a name=article07 id=article07><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Re-gifting: Should I?</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=200 height=200 id=imgPresent src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ipn401_redpresent.png" alt=present name=imgPresent><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Re-gifting was once considered rude and unacceptable under just about any circumstance. Is it now a totally acceptable practice? Not entirely. As with most other areas of etiquette, it can depend on the situation. Re-gifting gets a bad rap because at times the re-gifter is thoughtlessly unloading something he or she doesn t want to someone who doesn t want or need the item either. Done thoughtlessly, often the feelings of the original giver and the new receiver are irreparably hurt. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>There are guidelines to follow to properly re-gift and there is even a time when it is totally acceptable and can announce that it is a re-gift. However, most often it should only be done on rare occasions when certain criteria are met. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The item should be brand new. Not last year s brand new this year s brand new. It should be unopened, never played with, never worn, washed or tried out. It should be in its original undamaged packaging. All the bits and pieces must be intact, including the guarantee if there is one. If the recipient or the re-giftee returns it to the store, he should not be told that that model hasn t been carried in years. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>If you are planning to re-gift, be sure the person who gave you the gift does not know or know of the person who will be receiving the gift. If it is an unusual item that could easily be identified, you should not re-gift it unless the receiver is on another planet. The more unusual the item, the greater distance there should be between the giver and the re-giftee. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The re-gift should never be something you ve had in your closet for a few years or lying around the basement unused. If you ve had an item for some time and you know it happens to be something your friend really wants or needs, it s okay to give it to them as long as you don t wrap it up and pass it off as a gift you just purchased for them. You might say,  I have had this item for a few years but I am not using it to its full advantage (or it no longer fits me), so I thought you might like to have it. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Note: the key is you have had the item for some time and are passing it along, not giving it as a gift. When we donate to a charity such as Goodwill, we don t need to call the person who may have given us the sweater in the first place.</span></em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The re-gift should not be something horrible that you dislike and are re-gifting just to get it out of your basement or to avoid spending money on the receiver. Unless the item is something you would actually buy the recipient, you shouldn t give it to them. Remember that what you give is a reflection of you and your taste. Keep in mind that some of those homely gifts you received for wedding presents can come into style years later or be future candidates for the <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Antiques Roadshow.</span></em> <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Don t re-gift items that someone has handmade just for you. Those items are very heart-felt and should be always be kept. In such instances, the hurt feelings of the maker far surpass the value of the gift if you were to re-gift the item and it was discovered. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>If you are re-gifting, take the time to re-wrap the gift and attach new bows or ribbons. Always be sure you have removed any original gift tags or cards. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>When is it totally proper to re-gift and to announce it as a re-gift? When the re-gifting actually adds value to the gift, such as re-gifting a family quilt to your daughter-in-law, a family heirloom to another family member, your wedding dress to your granddaughter, you mother s engagement ring to your fiancée and other similar situations. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Only you can decide whether to re-gift something you have received. The basis of good manners is respect, care and consideration for others. Think through the circumstances and if in doubt, don t do it.<o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 08 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:#F0EDE6'><a name=article08 id="article 08"><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Answers to Holiday Quiz</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="#article04">Return to the questions.</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <ol start=1 type=1> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Bread or salad is on the left and your beverages are on the right. To help you remember think of the acronym  BMW : bread, meal, water.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Do not ask for seconds in case there aren t any available or the host has some other plans for the remaining food. However, if seconds are offered and others are having seconds, go ahead. Keep in mind though, if no one else accepts, you could end up to be the only one eating while others wait for you to finish before they are served the next course.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> It may not be in your best interests to have him attend if he doesn t wish to do so.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> In most cases you would not buy a gift for your boss as it may seem like you are trying to curry favour. A holiday card is appropriate or you may participate in a group gift.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> That is boorish. Usually the host has designed the seating arrangements with a purpose in mind.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Unless they are specifically mentioned in the invitation, you should not bring your children to a party.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Don t call your boss by his first name unless you normally do. Be on your best behaviour.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> If your host does not provide you with this information, you should ask. You need to know what clothing, or perhaps equipment, to bring.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> You should dress on the conservative side at a business or social event like the company party. The only breasts that should be seen are chicken breasts on the dinner plate.<o:p></o:p></span></li> <li class=MsoNormal style='mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt:auto; mso-list:l3 level1 lfo4;tab-stops:list 36.0pt;background:#F0EDE6'><strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>False.</span></strong><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif";mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'> Although a bottle of wine may be a good token of your appreciation, you shouldn t expect to share it at that time. It may not be suitable for the food served. Say to the host  This is for you to enjoy later. <o:p></o:p></span></li> </ol> </div> <!-- Article 09 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:white'><a name=article09 id=article09><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Ruder Than Rude: Wishing Merry Christmas</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p class=MsoNormal style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><img border=0 width=213 height=237 id=imgRuder src="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/ei/y/77/0de/6dc/wwwetiquetteladiesca/emailpics/ruder.png" alt=rude name=imgRuder><em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>I made the mistake of wishing someone  Merry Christmas and then found out they don t celebrate Christmas. I just said,  I am sorry. I made a mistake. My friend said that this was a huge faux pas. What should I have done? </span></em><br>  Tracey S., Newmarket, Ontario <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Regardless of whether you put up a Christmas tree and cook a turkey or you light a Menorah, the commonality in all festivities, religious or not, is in the celebration of our humanity and marveling at the progression of life and our diversity. What is important is the celebration of our creation or our creator and enjoyment and fellowship of our family and friends. In whatever way we choose to do it, that is what is most important. We may have certain traditions, religious or otherwise, that we follow and at the same time, we must always respect the traditions and beliefs of others. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Saying  Merry Christmas is not a political or religious statement, a racist comment nor an attempt to convert someone to Christianity. You are wishing someone good fellowship and good will. If the person on the receiving end happens not to be Christian, I am sure they don t believe the wish to be ill intended. You can just say,  I didn t realize, smile and say,  Happy Holidays. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>LF<o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Article 10 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:#F0EDE6'><a name=article10 id=article10><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Louise in the Media</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Here is a series of online articles featuring Canada s Etiquette Expert, Louise Fox. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/y" target="_blank">Reader s Digest: Table Manners Still Matter!</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/j" target="_blank">Canadian Living: 8 Simple Rules for Regifting</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/t" target="_blank">Bankrate.com: Gift-Giving Etiquette</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/i" target="_blank">Today s Parent: The Holiday Getting Together Guide</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/d" target="_blank">Cybersmokeblog.com: Ms. Manners Says & </a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/h" target="_blank">University of Western Ontario: Online wish lists ups the ante to find 'perfect gift'</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/k" target="_blank">AOL Canada: When You Send Out Christmas Cards and Don't Get Any Back</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/u" target="_blank">Working.com: Thirty-five per cent of Canadians send e-mails they might rue</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/o" target="_blank">The Toronto Star: Coming Right Atchoo</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/b" target="_blank">Iconoclast</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/n" target="_blank">The Ottawa Citizen: The great unwashed: Playoff rituals reign</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'><a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/p" target="_blank">Google  Louise Fox Etiquette and get 25,100 hits</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Louise will appear in The Bay Flag Ship Store on Queen Street in Toronto, December 5 at from 12 noon to 2 pm speaking on  Holiday Decorating in Small Spaces and on December 6 talking about  Holiday Decorating your Table. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:#F0EDE6'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>In addition, Louise will appear on<em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'> CBC Metro Morning</span></em> on December 12 and then on <em><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The Steven and Chris Show</span></em> December 19 where she will give tips on  Surviving the Holidays. <o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!--Article 11 --> <div style='border:none;border-bottom:dotted #5E3A34 1.0pt;mso-border-bottom-alt: dotted #5E3A34 .75pt;padding:0cm 0cm 8.0pt 0cm;margin-left:7.5pt'> <h1 style='background:white'><a name=article11 id=article11><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Upcoming Events</span></a><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <h2 style='background:white'><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Courtesy Counts: Fun Holiday Manners Workshop for Kids 6 to 12<br> Saturday, December 13<br> 1 3 pm <o:p></o:p></span></h2> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>This course takes place at Swansea Town Hall Community Center (Bloor West Village) at 95 Lavinia Avenue in Toronto.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>With a holiday focus, children will learn about manners, respect, making introductions, courtesy, table manners and more. Snacks and handbook are provided. Cost is $40 per student. To register, call 416-648-3624.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <h2 style='background:white'><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Conversation à la Carte: The Art of Networking and Conversation <br> Thursday, February 5, 2009 <br> 5:30 pm 8:30 pm <o:p></o:p></span></h2> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Are you nervous and tongue-tied at business and social events? Do you dread attending the company celebration party and other seasonal festivities? Are you so distracted by which fork to use that you can only think to ask,  What do you do? Do you spend all your time at business events hanging out at the bar or shrimp tree? You aren t alone. Competent, talented, intelligent people from all walks of life need assistance in developing conversation, social and dining skills. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>Let Louise Fox recognized by press and television as Canada s Etiquette Expert help you boost your self-confidence, climb the corporate ladder, broaden your business and social circles and feel comfortable in any social situation from dinner with the CEO to cocktails in a room full of strangers. Boost your social intelligence with training in the art of conversation and hands on cocktail etiquette. Learn how to avoid awkward silences, start conversations even when you have nothing to say, improve your listening skills, exit conversations gracefully and turn every social or business event into an opportunity for success. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The cost is $135 per person which includes food and beverage, a hands-on networking session and participant handbook. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>For children s programs, please check the Etiquette Ladies web site or contact Louise at <a href="mailto:louise@etiquetteladies.com">louise@etiquetteladies.com. </a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <h2 style='background:white'><span style='mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"'>Outclass the Competition: Corporate Dining and Entertaining for Business <br> Thursday, February 26, 2009 <br> 12:00 pm 2:30 pm <o:p></o:p></span></h2> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>The cost is $135 per person which includes a four-course gourmet lunch and participant handbook. It will take place at the Verity Club, Queen Richmond Centre (111D Queen Street East Toronto, M5C 1S2 ). <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>To register, contact Louise at <a href="mailto:louise@etiquetteladies.com">louise@etiquetteladies.com</a> or pay online. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style='background:white'><span style='font-family:"Georgia","serif"'>For more information visit <a href="http://etiquetteladies.cmail4.com/t/y/l/dllko/bhujhkht/x" target="_blank">etiquetteladies.com.</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> <!-- Footer --> <div style='margin-left:7.5pt' id=footer> <p class=MsoNormal align=center style='text-align:center;background:white'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";color:#5E3A34'>Reply to <a href="mailto:louise@etiquetteladies.com"><span style='color:#5E3A34'>Louise Fox</span></a>. 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